POSTED ON August 05, 2008 BY Beth Kanter
Cool Moms In The Community: Encouraging Philanthropy at a Young Age, part II
Host A Giving Is Better Than Receiving Birthday Party
That’s some great advice based on personal and professional experience from Amy Jussel who is the Founder and Executive Director of Shaping Youth. For the holidays, she has hosted a kindergarten “angel” party where the kids were “angel donors” for families in need, depositing their unwrapped toys and gifts as admittance to the fun. The idea is basically giving rather than receiving wrapped in a party theme. Amy says that now that her daughter has entered her teen years, they segued to more complex themes. She warns though, “I’ve found that you have to follow your kids’ leads to enroll them in THEIR passions, not necessarily yours, as they get older.”
Create a Holiday Tradition of Giving
Happy Katie recalls her own childhood traditions of giving, both during the holidays and year round. “My parents encouraged us to donate 10% of our weekly allowance to charity. We also had a Christmas tradition where instead of giving each other gifts, we sponsored a family and bought them presents instead. That was one of the best holidays traditions we had. We basically, what it came to was creating a family culture where giving and being charitable was not only promoted and smiled upon, but recognized as a regular activity we did on our own and as a familial unit.”
Looking for an alternative gift to help a child? Save the Children launched an inspiring and informative catalog that lets you and your child explore a map of the world and imagine how simple gifts, vitamins for infants, library books for kids in rural America, or an apple tree in Ethiopia are extraordinary resources.
Amy Sample Ward reminds us that your kids don’t have to give cash only. “Time, enthusiasm, expertise, skills… it is important to keep all of these things in mind when choosing a group to support and how to support them.”
Let your Kids Make the Decision
Kayta Andresen from Network for Good has fantastic idea last holiday season, “Give With Your Kids Day.” “Give your child-or someone else’s child-$25 to spend on charity. You can give them $25 to spend at Network for Good (which has every charity based in the US) or Global Giving (which has a bunch of international projects) or the charity you work for. Let them choose how to spend it, either by letting them pick the charity or by designating their donation to a special project. Spend it together online, checking out pictures and project descriptions.”
Share Giving/Gaming Opportunities Online
Amy Jussel of Shaping Youth Blog shared a story of how she and her daughter played the Freerice game, a quiz-style vocabulary builder that rewards correct answers with ten grains per bowl to feed hungry children, distributed by the U.N.’s World Food Programme. Not only was her daughter able to contribute to a good cause by playing a game, the experience also brought up a ethical dilemma.
Money Savvy Piggy Bank and Spend, Save, and Give Allowance Policy
Celeste for the studio 501c3 blog suggests this piggy bank, with separate slots for investing, saving, spending, and donating is a great way to teach kids about devoting a portion of their income to charity.
Katrin Verclas says her family’s allowance policy is: 1/3 for spending as you wish, 1/3 for savings, and 1/3 to give wherever you wish.
Donate or purchase a toy for a child in need
Another great way to teach kids about charity is to engage them in buying or donating something that they are familiar with… toys! Celeste suggests Able Play where kids can research toys that are appropriate for kids with disabilities, and then buy and donate one to a local hospital, school, or day care center (perhaps after asking the staff at the center about what is most needed in terms of the age range, or disability of the children who would play with the toy).
Neha Yellurka suggests Toys for Tots is a great way to introduce children to charity. “For the holidays, instead of asking for a toy for themselves, encourage your child to pick something out that they would like another child to have!” Another option is Get Well Gamers which brings video game systems and games to children’s hospitals by collecting used game systems and other donated product and sends them to children’s programs at hospitals.
What are some ways that you have encouraged your children to give to charity-either around the holidays or year round?
Additional Resources
In The Series
Cool Moms In The Community: Encouraging Philanthropy at a Young Age
About The Author
Beth Kanter is a trainer, [blogger][], and consultant to nonprofits and individuals in effective use of social media. Her expertise is how to use new web tools (blogging, tagging, wikis, photo sharing, video blogging, screencasting, social networking sites, and virtual worlds, etc) to support nonprofit. She has worked on projects that include: training, curriculum development, research, and evaluation. She is an experienced coach to “digital immigrants” in the personal mastery of these tools. She is a professional blogger and writes about the use of social media tools in the nonprofit sector for social change. More About Beth
